Matrimony
282. What is the sacrament of Matrimony?
Matrimony is the sacrament by which two baptized persons bind
themselves for life in a lawful marriage and receive the grace to
discharge their duties.
283.
What are the chief duties of spouses within the married state?
The
chief duties of spouses within the married state are to be faithful
to each other, and to provide in every way for the welfare of the
children God may give them.
284.
Why does the bond of the sacrament of Matrimony last until the death
of a spouse?
The
bond of the sacrament of Matrimony lasts until the death of one of
the spouses because Christ has said: "What therefore God has joined
together, let no man put asunder."
285.
What is meant by the unity of the sacrament of Matrimony?
By
the unity of the sacrament of Matrimony is meant that the neither
spouse can leave the other for another person.
286.
Why is every true marriage between two baptized persons a sacrament?
Every
true marriage between two baptized persons is a sacrament because
Christ Himself raised every marriage of this kind to the dignity of
a sacrament.
287.
Why has the Church the right to make laws regulating the marriages
of baptized persons?
The
Church has the right to make laws regulating the marriages of
baptized persons because the Church has been given the
responsibility over the sacraments and over sacred matters affecting
baptized persons.
288.
What authority has the State regarding the marriages of baptized
persons?
Regarding the marriages of baptized persons, the State has the
authority to make laws regarding age and blood relationship.
Then he said to them, "Render, therefore, to Caesar the things that
are Caesar's, and to God the things that are God's." (Matthew 22:21)
289.
What is necessary to receive the sacrament of Matrimony worthily?
To
receive the sacrament of Matrimony worthily it is necessary to be in
the state of grace, to know the duties of married life, and to obey
the marriage laws of the Church.
For we are children of the saints, and we must not be joined
together like heathens that know not God. (Tobias 8:5)
290.
In whose presence do the laws of the Church require a Catholic to be
married?
The
laws of the Church require a Catholic to be married in the presence
of the parish priest, or the bishop of the diocese, or a priest
delegated by either of them, and before two witnesses.
290.
What are the chief effects of the sacrament of Matrimony?
The
chief effects of the sacrament of Matrimony are: first, an increase
of sanctifying grace; second, the special help of God for spouses to
love each other faithfully, to bear with each other's faults, and to
bring up their children properly.
291.
What should Catholics do to prepare for a holy and happy marriage?
To
prepare for a holy and happy marriage, Catholics should:
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pray that God may
direct their choice;
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seek the advice of
their parents and confessors;
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third practice the
virtues, especially chastity;
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frequently receive the
sacraments of Penance and Holy Eucharist.
Or
do you not know that your members are the temple of the Holy Ghost,
who is in you, whom you have from God, and that you are not your
own? For you have been bought at a great price. Glorify God and bear
him in your body. (I Corinthians 6:19-20)
292.
How can Catholics best obtain God's blessing for their marriage?
Catholics can best obtain God's blessing for their marriage by being
married at a Nuptial Mass and by receiving Holy Communion devoutly.
Sara also said, "Have mercy on us, O Lord, have mercy on us; and let
us grow old both together in health." (Tobias 8:10)